Monday, January 24, 2011

The Day Erik Came to Stay

The day that it all happened...well, it actually started the night before - Tuesday, January 11th. Contractions kept me awake most of the night, nothing too major, but it did leave me wondering if this baby would come sometime soon.
Because sleep was needed, James took Katelyn over to Oma's to be watched. I had to take a couple pictures of my only child - just in case the baby arrived. :) Katelyn's last meal at our house as the only kiddo. :)
Mommy and Katelyn.
One last picture of the three of us...
Then after some sleep, I went for my last afternoon of work at the Windmill. :) It didn't seem to make sense to stay home alone and go through the contractions by myself and just to wait and wait... so I went and worked my last day, and got pied - a tradition at the Windmill. :) If you quit, you get a pie in the face when you're least expecting it. I was wondering if James (the man who does it) would get me, being as I had contractions all afternoon, but sure enough he did!
And we made a memory. :)
Then after supper in the Windmill, and contractions getting more intense and closer together James and I went home, and called the midwife to come. I was only 2 cm. and disappointed. The contractions slowed down for a while, and the midwife - Kelly - left. We were to call her when it picked up again and when a more 'normal' pattern happened. So we went to bed, and had some sleep for about an hour, and then the contractions really picked up again. We got into this rhythm of, ''help me James'' - and he would wake up, apply back counter-pressure during the contraction, and then fall back asleep as I would wait the next one, and we'd do it all over again. :) He got pretty fast at assisting me after coming to.
Then I went into a nice warm tub around 1:15 a.m. and wondered how I'd make it if went on much longer...then at 2:30 a.m. it was like, 'call her now' - and I knew it would be just minutes before this baby would be born. James called the midwife right away, and she left immediately - but our little baby wouldn't wait - so in a few minutes, a purple baby was born, delivered by James - the calm and cool midwife. :) It was a bit intense at first, as I wasn't prepared for a blue baby who wasn't making a lot of noise. The midwife had told James to call 911 if he needed to, and so just in case, he called for assistance - and I'm praying that this baby would be okay...scared to think that we came this far, and then to lose him because we didn't know what to do. But then Kelly arrives, takes one look, ''oh he's fine.'' :) (what relief) and James tries to get off the phone with the very thorough 911 dispatchers. :) So it was a very exciting time, not as calm as I had hoped for, but as long as the baby was alright, that was all that matters.
And it was a boy! I was so happy!!! We knew his name right away - Erik James. We chose the name mostly because we both liked it. It is a strong name, and I loved it with a 'k'; it looks so good with the last name Heikoop. It means "ruler". Then the midwife looked after us all, and we spent the next couple hours getting all acquainted. We were so tired, but soooo happy!!
Erik resting on my arm - not the greatest picture, but it was his first photograph. :)
A proud father holding his firstborn son.
Three quarters of our little family.
He found his thumb really quickly...
Kelly checking out his brain size. :)
About to be weighed - I was surprised he was 9 lb. 9 oz. His cheeks are so pudgy and kissable.
Up and away - with the perfect little toes sticking out.
His first "formal" portrait. :) So fun to have a baby in blue.

Mommy and Erik. Super happy.
Then later on that morning, Katelyn was brought over and got to meet her brother. She was all excited to see the 'baby' and is really gentle with him. She hasn't been jealous at all, though you could the last few days that she needs a bit of a mommy time. But she's been so good through all the changes.
The medium sized Heikoop family. :)
Getting to hold Erik for the first time.
"Don't take him away. I love him."
Oma and her newest grandson.
Opa - proud of his strong gripping grandbaby.
Auntie Nel. I fulfilled her request and had the baby before she returned to teaching in Toronto - but just barely. She left for the city that evening. :) I'll miss her lots.

Uncle Rob and Uncle Mark came over for a bit to meet the lil' guy.
I like this picture... :)
Ben and Deanna came to see the little man! And we're so excited for them, cause in the summer time, Lord willing, they'll have a baby of their own. Deanna's been so cheerful throughout the not-fun morning sickness. I can't wait to see what they'll have. :)
Later on the evening - Sarah came over to see him, and kiss him.
Then Henry, Heather and the girls stopped by for a quick hello.
Hannah, holding her newest and littlest cousin.
Lydia
And then some more visitors of the evening were William, and Brendon. (and doggie Molly) And lastly, the engaged couple - Diane and Brad. :) Then it was bathtime for the little man.
His first bath. :) He liked his second bath more than the first. The midwives here recommend taking a herbal bath with sea salt and garlic - thus the brown colored 'tea' water. It helps the umbilical cord fall off quicker and encourages healing in the mom.
Then it was to bed - so happy, exhausted, and loved - by all the family and friends who came that day. And so thankful to God that Erik is finally here - a week before his due date - to stay for however long God gives him to us. :)

Christmas at New Year's & my Birthday!

NEW YEARS EVE:
James was in charge of the small New Years Eve party at our church so off we went to celebrate the last year with some friends. First we stopped in at a Tim Hortans as we had arrived early at the church.

Katy and Daddy.

Everyone working on a game made up by Nelly.

Working hard.
Then after it was over, we went to Henry and Heathers for the final countdown with a few other people, and then back to our little home where took pictures of us two by our Christmas tree. :)
NEW YEARS DAY: (our Christmas Day)
This was the day I was sick, and starting having contractions. So I looked at the Christmas dinner (sigh) and then left the table to have a bath. Thankfully that stopped the contractions, and I was able to get warm again, and able to enjoy the rest of the evening of exchanging gifts.
Some of the family at the table. (in the resturant at the Windmill)
Exchanging gifts.
Mark had Katelyn's name for Christmas. (all the original uncles and aunts get a nephew or niece's name for a gift, and they all get one of the uncles or aunts- and all of the Heikoop adults get someone else's name) He have her a cute pair of soft brown boots, farm block puzzle, and a cool handmade wooden barn to store the puzzle/or other toys in. He painted it green. A fun toy! She was happy! It was sweet of Mark to invest that time in something so special.
James with a couple of his many gifts from Tim - he also got a bluetooth, and a trombone book.
MY BIRTHDAY:
It started with breakfast in bed - so lovely. Katelyn and I posing that morning in bed - it's the full term pregnancy look. :) (in otherwords, blah...)
James and Nelly had collabrated together on some things. :) I came downstairs to this lovely bouquet of flowers that Nelly had put together...
...a birthday banner from my sweet husband... and a beautiful table display. (the banner reads, Happy Birthday Sweetmommysis".
That evening James took Nelly, Katelyn and I out to a lovely Chinese meal at Kings Buffet.
Us two at the resturant. Afterwards, Nel watched Katelyn for us while we went on a date to see "The Voyage of the Dawn Treader" in 3D. We enjoyed that a lot. Then it was back to the chapel where Nel had decorated a little room all purply and pretty. James wheeled me in to the dark room where everyone was seated, holding sparklers and singing "Happy Birthday" to me. I felt loved. I knew some of the family was going to be there, but didn't know that almost everyone was there. :) Special.
My cake! Made by my very own personal baker. (and in purple)
ODDS AND ENDS:
Me at 38ish weeks.
Nelly came for a visit one day, and we both walked back to the Windmill together.
Wintertime in Mount Pleasant.
WINTER PARTY AT THE WINDMILL:
This year we had the annual 'Christmas' windmill party upstairs in the Windmill. Rob ordered Chinese food, and Nelly re-did the upstairs look. :)
Katy waiting for her 'noodles'.
One of the tables. (more the young people's table)
Another table of workers. The bakery girls and grocery gal. :)
And yet again more... We sure are blessed with our employees. Such a friendly and loving bunch. Feels like family.
And some more - with Mr.Kenyon (with white tie)
And some more.
And the last table. :)
We sang one song together - "No One Else." And then we all played a game James (with major help from Deanna via e-mail) put together called "Jeopardy" - the game show. It mostly worked, and then we had dessert and then home and to bed. Super tired. :)

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Erik James Arrives!

Our little son was born at 2:40 a.m. - January 13th, 2011
Erik James Heikoop
Praising God for his protection and goodness in giving us such an adorable little boy!